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Writer's pictureNadine Gharios

Have you ever wondered how we experience life?

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It All Starts with Sensation 


Have you ever taken a moment to reflect on how every instant of your life begins?

You may not have realized it, but everything starts with sensation.


Whether it’s the warmth of the sun on your skin, the smell of freshly baked bread, or the sharp sting of cold wind against your face, our experiences begin with what we sense—sight, sound, taste, touch, and smell.


In the blink of an eye, these sensations influence our perception of the world, evoke emotions, and forge memories. It all occurs so quickly that you might not even notice the remarkable process happening in that fleeting moment. As psychologist Richard Lazarus once suggested, “Emotions aren't just reactions to what happens; they arise from the meaning we give to our sensations.” In that light, sensations become more than just basic responses to the world around us—they are pathways to a deeper, more meaningful experience of life.


And then comes perception, working in the background like an artist with a canvas, taking those raw sensations and weaving them into the fabric of your reality helping us sort through and make sense of everything we’re experiencing. It’s like your brain is organizing the sensory chaos, giving meaning to the signals flooding in. For example, hearing a baby's laughter isn't just about registering the sound; it’s about recognizing the joy in it and feeling that warmth spread through your chest in an instant.


Perception turns raw sensations into stories, coloring how we interact with the world around us.


Following that directly, we have:  attention—it’s what helps us decide which sensations matter most. It shapes those experiences in a flash, focusing on what draws us in based on our mood, interests, or needs.


Imagine you're at a concert, with lights flashing and music pounding all around you. If you let your thoughts drift to tomorrow's tasks, you’ll miss out on the electrifying thrill of the moment. But if you let yourself be carried away—feeling the bass pulse through your chest and letting the music wash over you—you create a powerful connection with the experience.


That connection can happen in an instant; all it takes is being present.


Attention can turn an ordinary moment into a cherished memory, one you’ll hold onto for years. Have you ever been so caught up in a joyful moment that everything else around you just disappeared? That’s the power of focused attention. It allows life to come into vivid color.


After sensation, perception, and attention, comes cognitive appraisal—


Cognitive appraisal then adds yet another layer. It’s the lens through which we evaluate what we sense, determining whether a situation is a challenge or an opportunity, a joy or a burden.


It's remarkable how two people can perceive the same situation so differently:


one friend may see an upcoming trip as an exhilarating adventure, while another feels overwhelmed by the planning.


Their feelings spring from how they interpret the same situation differently, almost automatically. Recognizing how our perceptions shape our emotions can help us navigate life with a little more understanding.


The way we think about experiences can shift our whole outlook. When we face challenges with curiosity, for instance, nerves can transform into excitement, just like that. As psychologist Daniel Kahneman puts it, “We are not thinking machines that feel; we are feeling machines that think.” It’s amazing how quickly our emotions and thoughts can influence each other, creating a kind of dance that happens before we’re even fully aware of it.



Then there’s our tapestry of the past, which adds layers to the equation in an instant and it’s deeply tied to the sensations that originally shaped those moments. Flip through an old photo album, and a sun-drenched beach might suddenly come to life before your eyes—the scent of salty air, the warmth of sand beneath your feet, the sound of distant waves.


Memory is where the past and present intertwine and it’s heavily influenced by the sensations we’ve experienced. A quick glance at an old photo can instantly transport you to a sun-drenched beach, bringing back the scent of salty air and the soothing sound of waves. It’s as if those moments come rushing back all at once, enveloping you in warmth and nostalgia. On the other hand, recalling a painful memory might bring a heavy feeling in your chest, a reminder of past hurt.


Our memories are vivid and textured, built from the sights, sounds, and feelings that have shaped us over the years.


By taking a moment to revisit happy memories, we can uplift our mood and build resilience, one sensory flashback at a time. Memories aren’t just records of where we’ve been; they’re the threads that weave together who we are, with sensations adding color and depth.



The backdrop that gives each moment its unique texture is the context. A family dinner filled with laughter feels profoundly different from a tense meal in a crowded restaurant, even if the dishes are the same. Context doesn’t just influence how we feel—it shapes the story of the experience itself. A simple gesture, like a reassuring hug from a friend, can turn an otherwise mundane moment into one of deep connection, a reminder that the simplest encounters often hold the most meaning.


Every experience, no matter how fleeting, weaves into the rich tapestry of your life. In a world that often scatters our attention and divides our focus, there is profound power in simply being present. It’s captivating to recognize how each step of our experience is interconnected, shaped by our unique situations, histories, and even the mood of the moment. Together, they activate in various ways, allowing us to fully engage with life as it unfolds. By embracing this interconnectedness, we can appreciate the depth and richness of our daily experiences, ultimately enriching our understanding of what it means to experiment life.







References

  • Damasio, A. R. (1994). Descartes’ Error: Emotion, Reason, and the Human Brain. New York: G.P. Putnam’s Sons.

  • Kahneman, D. (2011). Thinking, Fast and Slow. New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux.

  • Lazarus, R. S. (1991). Emotion and Adaptation. New York: Oxford University Press.

  • Siegel, D. J. (2010). The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician’s Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration. New York: W.W. Norton & Company.

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